Friday, June 25, 2010

What Should They Learn?

I read a blog about "What should children learn?" They were trying to think outside the box. They wondered if the focus on traditional subjects is really all that important. Seeing the responses was interesting. I had an inkling that my list would not resemble too many others, but with 3 teenagers, and 2 grown step-kids with children of their own, here's what I think are the most important things children should learn:
  • Kindness and compassion. Learn how to put yourself into other people's shoes.  When everyone else jumps on a bandwagon against something someone did, hold back a little bit.
  • Live in the moment. Realize that there are about 16 waking hours in a day. And when they're gone, they're gone. There's nothing wrong with having a little "down time" but make sure you have some "up time too."
  • Listen to people when they talk to you.  Give them your full attention.  Think about what they're saying but also why they might be saying it to you.
  • Learn healthy eating choices and find exercise that you like and can do nearly every day. You're going to be in this body for a while - longer if you take care of it
  • Learn your strengths and your weaknesses. Do something about or with both. Take time to get to know yourself.
  • Learn about the nature of advertising and marketing. 
  • Learn how to pursue your interests. Learn how to find information on the internet.
  • Be brave. Try new things. You never know what you might actually like.
These are what come to mind when I think about what children should be taught.  In school curriculum, I think they call these "threads." They are supposed to permeate different subjects year after year. I like the idea of these topics being the important threads.  I believe the reading, writing, and math will present itself.  And if you need these more traditional "subjects" for a job you'd like to pursue, that's why we have community college.

2 comments:

Sue said...

I thought of more...
Conflict Management
Body Language and what it means
Don't Get too attached to the outcome of things
Be Impeccable with your Word
Take nothing Personally
Don't Make Assumptions
Do Your Best

(Some people will know where those last four come from! Imagine if we taught that to our children!)

Sue said...

Thought of some more...
Pushing past setbacks instead of giving up quickly when it's harder.
How to give compliments (and mean them) and how to accept them graciously.
How happiness is a choice.

I may just keep coming back and adding and adding until I have a Whole Life Curriculum! :)